Back to Sexual health. It's normal to feel attracted to both girls and boys when you're growing up. Find out about coming out, safer sex, and how to deal with bullying if it happens to you. During puberty, you have lots of emotions and sexual feelings. It's normal for girls to think about girls in a sexual way, and for boys to think about boys in a sexual way. Some people realise they prefer people of the opposite sex, while others feel they prefer people of the same sex.
I Am Gay (But Not For You)
I Have a Girlfriend But I Think I'm Gay
Regardless of how you identify—whether it be as lesbian, bisexual , asexual , another term , or nothing at all—how you choose to label yourself is not based on a checklist. But then in high school, I met this girl and we started dating secretly. After that, there was no going back, and I eventually came out. Being with her was worth the scariness of coming out to my parents. But up until the end of high school, I was always interested in guys—and even dated a guy my senior year.
I Think I'm Gay -- What Should I Do?
You so obviously cannot be gay , was her implication, because this is good sex. If you happened to engage in activity that ran counter to your sexual identity, then you had two options: you were lying to yourself and everyone else, or you were just experimenting. The sexual categories were rigid. My sexual journey through college was anything but run-of-the-mill.
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